It is easy to find myself angry when I am confronted with someone else’s deceit but what about my own?
How many times have I been dishonest in my acts or in my statements?
How many times have I misrepresented the truth or concealed it from another?
How many times have I used deceit because I was too afraid to tell the truth? Too afraid to make a decision? Too afraid of someone’s reaction?
When I become enraged by someone else’s deceitful behavior… I need to take a step back and think about the situation before making a move.
Why did this person feel the need to be dishonest?
Were they worried that I was unapproachable?
That I would judge them for making a mistake?
Like me… were they afraid to tell the truth? Afraid to make a decision? Afraid of my reaction to their needs?
Sometimes a situation warrants my compassion and empathy.
When faced with deceit, I need to look at my own struggles with honesty before jumping to judge and condemn those around me.
“Dear God, help me to be pure and true in my intent. When faced with another’s deceit, help me to listen with a loving heart and put judgement aside.”