After months of fighting to save my marriage, I was surprised to find that when the end of our relationship finally arrived, I was relieved.
I felt a soothing calm over my entire body.
My mind slowed and relaxed.
It was no different then any physical struggle: I was worn by the constant battle… the constant expenditure of energy.
I still had my moments of sadness, of melancholy… that quiet longing for what I could no longer have… but the relief filled me with a new found strength and hope. I could now see that there was a release to this painful time in my life.
There was a sense of drive again… of wanting to move forward.
I began to conquer little things I had been neglecting for months during my emotional turmoil:
Cleaning the house.
Getting the car tuned-up.
Each chore that had once seemed so overwhelming to me during my pain, now seemed like a small accomplishment.
And each small accomplishment, added to my relief and soon… I felt pleased with my progress and actually happy that I was moving on.
Relief soothed my soul and brought me peace as the door to my marriage finally closed.
“Dear God, thank you for bringing me relief from my pain. Thank you for walking with me through the pain I endured.”