Before I went through my divorce, I never truly accepted an outcome that didn’t seem to work in my favor.
I always thought that I knew what was best.
I always believed that the other person must be absolutely wrong and if they would just stop being stubborn, we would both end up with the correct outcome: My outcome.
The best outcome of course.
But then one day, I heard a friend say, “I have to stop playing God. I think I know best for everyone but that’s just not true.”
I had to admit to myself right then and there that I liked playing God.
It gave me a sense of control and honestly, I thought if everyone would just do what I would say, my outcome would protect them from future pain and harm, and keep them on the right track to a better life.
Well, that isn’t how life works.
People have to choose their own path to walk.
I can offer my own experience, strength, and hope to help guide them on their way but…
their choices, and their inevitable outcomes… must be just that: their choice.
I know now that this is how others find their spiritual growth.
I don’t have to like every outcome in life… but I must accept that it is a necessary part of learning.
We may see others on a path of destruction, but maybe that is the path they must walk to find their salvation.
“Dear God, help me to accept all outcomes. Help me to see that you have a bigger plan than I have the ability to imagine.”
Are you in my head? That is EXACTLY what I used to think…Some days are harder than others. Thank you for writing this!
Jules… your comment made me smile…. So hard NOT to play God…. I really like control 🙂
Glad my words helped… D.