There have been times in my life where I have had to resolve myself to do something that I didn’t necessarily want to do.
When my husband told me he wanted a divorce in December of 2001, and still hadn’t filed any of the paperwork by May 2002, I knew that I would have to set a boundary, and resolve to move forward with the divorce on my own, so that I could continue on with my life instead of living out of control, in a limbo based on my soon-to-be ex-husband’s time frame.
When I chose to go back to school for my higher degrees, in the beginning, it was not for me, it was a resolution that I made so that my children would reap the benefits of my education. By going back to school, I was able to make enough money to stay in my family home, and continue our life there. Knowing I no longer needed to rely on my husband for financial support provided me with security, and boosted my self-esteem.
It is not always easy to make a resolution. Firm decisions are often hard when struggling with boundary issues, self-esteem issues, or insecurities related to past circumstances.
But by making a commitment to the future, we learn to stick to our resolve and walk forward bravely on our spiritual paths.
“Dear God, help me to follow my spiritual path. Help me to be true in all of my decisions and to follow my heart.”
You are welcome… and I am here for you…. Each year there seems to be something new to truly resolve…. not weight loss, or organizing…. or things like that…. but the one big thing you know really needs to change. D.