March 31st: Moving Forward with Resolve

March 31

The end of my marriage was not easy for me.

But once I accepted that it was inevitable… I chose to move on with resolve.

I knew that no matter how much I loved my soon-to-be ex-husband that he no longer wanted to build a life with me and that forcing it… would not create the outcome I longed for.

Often it is hard to move on… hard to say out loud what I know to be true in my heart… hard to say something that may hurt someone I have loved, still love…

But I know now, that if both partners are unable to find a perfect fit together, at that particular time in their lives, it really is best to let go, no matter how difficult, and move forward with resolve to a new life… a new opportunity… one that may be exactly what I have been looking for.

Today, I choose to have faith on my path and move forward with true resolve.

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“Dear God, help me to have strength in my darkest hour. Help me to have clarity and faith as I choose to walk forward on my own.”

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4 thoughts on “March 31st: Moving Forward with Resolve

  1. Oh Meg, I feel for you… I really do… I remember that feeling and I know how your heart hurts. One of my least favorite things to hear when I was in the middle of my despair was… “Time will move you through” but I cannot tell you how very true it is.
    I did my best to take care of myself physically, emotionally and spiritually. I filled my time with activities I enjoyed with good friends and each time I caught myself thinking about “him” I would actually say the word “stop” and make my mind let go of my obsession. I’m here. D.

  2. Having the resolve to move on is so tough. I know what it’s like to try to hang on to how you feel, or felt. I’m still wonder how he’s doing at times , but now the memories are learning to stay where they belong – the past.

    • It takes awhile….. I rarely think of anything to do with my ex now unless it directly relates to an event our adult children are involved in… 🙂

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